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Healing is a flow of energy and is known as vital energy or universal life force. It is known by various names around the world e.g. Chi by the Chinese, Ki by the Japanese, Prana in Sanskrit (Ancient India), Ruah [means breath of life] in Hebrew or Mana by the Kahunas in Hawaii. It is also known as laying of the hands, faith healing, Pranic healing, psychic healing, magnetic healing and Ki healing to mention a few.

When healing, it is very important for the healer to have a clear, pure and honourable spiritual intention, and to be a pure channel, because where intention goes, energy flows. The healer does not heal, the healer is only a pure, open channel for the healing energy to flow through and pass on to the client. It is said that the healing energy is used by the client to heal him/herself as blocked stagnant energy is released and a feeling of well- being is restored. This helps to keep the body alive and well.

The healing session will be explained before it starts so you will have an idea of what is going to be done and what may happen. All questions will be answered, as the main objective is to help you to relax into the session. No removal of clothing is required, only your shoes for your own comfort. The session is carried out with the client fully clothed lying, sitting or standing. You may or may not be touched: Toks will ask for your permission before touching you. Healing sessions are sometimes carried out in silence, with conversation or music. The work is highly intuitive and very real.

The healer attunes to the Divine and asks for permission to carry out the healing. The healer may or may not touch you when healing. Your first home is your body, so when the healer touches your body she touches your 'physical temple', your 'sacred temple', your 'sacred home'. The healer may not touch you and work on your auric field or 'spiritual temple' - this is known as working on the aura, the energy field that surrounds the physical body. It is in this sacred space around you that the healer projects vital healing energy and works on your energy centres or 'chakras' sending healing to where it is needed and to the whole person.

Physicians work mainly with drugs, herbs and surgery. Healers work with the cosmic life forces, intuition and the inner process of the sick body. Healers tend to use healing ritual, symbols, sound, music, crystals, colour, karma, dance, movement, herbs or amulets. Perhaps you can think of other ways physicians and healers work that may be different or similar.

No. There is no belief system attached to the healing so anyone can have healing whether or not they believe in it. Faith is not a prerequisite for successful treatment. The healing will work, even in a person who has no faith. If you have a religious belief, there is no need to alter that belief. Also, if you do not have a religious belief this is not an obstacle to receiving healing. Healing is the universal flow of life force available to everyone.

Everyone is different so your experience will be unique to you. Some people experience feelings before, during or at the end of the session. Some feel a sensation of heat, warmth, coolness, cooling, tingling, pins and needles, pressure, tearful, light headiness or simply a feeling of a 'movement of energy' as pain may come to the surface and disperse. Some may feel nothing and just simply feel better afterwards. Some feel tired followed by an improvement later on. Some sense an increase in vitality and clarity of action. Many feel more relaxed and better able to cope and deal with their lives. These feelings are good indications that the energies are working and you are responding to the session. Whatever the sensations experienced, everyone feels relaxed.

The Suggested benefits of Divine Healing are:-

  • Gives you time for yourself
  • Balances the Chakras
  • Reduces stress
  • You feel positive
  • You breathe better
  • Releases muscular tension
  • You feel cleansed
  • Work more effectively
  • Encourages better health
  • Body feels centred
  • Feel deep inner relaxation
  • You feel back in your body
  • Promotes inner peace
  • Aids reflection
  • Aids concentration
  • Activates your Higher Self
  • Activates healing energy
  • Relieves pain and fatigue
  • Opens your heart energy
  • Self-empowering

People of All Ages; from babies to young children to adults and the elderly.
Any Corporate Officer, Members of Any Company Staff.

Collin's English Dictionary defines:
'stress' as 'mental, emotional, or physical strain or tension'.
'ease' as 'freedom from discomfort, worry or anxiety…, leisure or relaxation….to make comfortable'.
'dis' as 'indicating negation, lack or deprivation'.

Therefore, the word 'dis-ease' means not being at ease. If you are not at ease, you are uncomfortable. So dis-ease DOES NOT mean having a disease. All sickness is dis-ease. Dis-ease is the manifestation of any imbalance on a spiritual, mental, physical, emotional, behavioural and working level in the human being. Feelings of stress, tension, anxiety, insecurity, depression, grief, sorrow, despair, loneliness, fear, guilt, anger, violence, rage, betrayal or hatred are all forms of dis-ease.

Spiritual Dis-ease: fear, death, loss, grieving, unresolved grief, panic attacks, guilt, insecurity, phobias, nightmares, curses, attachments, addictions (drugs, smoking, drinking, sex), negative ties/cords that bind to unhealthy relationships, low resistance to infection, spiritual violence, trauma, shocking events.

Mental Dis-ease: confusion, headaches, dizziness, insomnia, sleep disturbance, forgetfulness, verbal abuse, abusive patterns, feeling stuck, lost, irritable, cluttered mind, poor judgement, low concentration, memory loss, desperation, futility, terror, lack of self worth, holding on, mental violence, unable to make decisions, conflicts of interest, victim mentality.

Physical Dis-ease: back problems, reduced immunity, feeling tired, chronic fatigue, tight muscles, boils, swellings, pain, physical violence, digestive problems, constipation, diarrhoea, irritable bowel syndrome, loss of appetite, over eating, palpitations, ulcers, operations, high blood pressure, heart disease, hair loss, poor skin, rashes, low sex drive, stress related infertility and impotence, cancer, ME.

Emotional / Psychological Dis-ease: depression, trauma, anxiety, anger, tearful, loneliness, suicidal, mood swings, unstable, abandonment, unsuitable jobs / relationships, emotional violence, jealousy, envy, hatred, obsessions, low life force, feeling trapped, frustrated, betrayed, let down,  unable to care, unable to feel.

Work Dis-ease: absenteeism, lack of feedback, feeling unappreciated, unhealthy competition, low self esteem, unable to meet deadlines or to cope with workload, no future, feeling stuck or trapped, job change, home relocation, no support. No clearly defined strategy, purpose or mission statement. Unbearable tension and stress caused by aggression, abuse, bullying, discrimination, harassment or hostility. Lack of focus, inspiration, creativity or self-esteem. Fear of ageing, threat of redundancy, unstable job security. Fear of learning new skills and training required.

There is no simple way of predicting what will cause harmful levels of stress (dis-ease) as people respond to different types of pressure in different ways.

According to the Health and Safety Commission of 1999, stress is the reaction people have to excessive pressures and other types of demands placed upon them and arises when they worry that they can't cope. Today, employers need to identify causes of stress within the workplace and take measures to prevent ill health. A degree of stress can be regarded as healthy, normal and positive. However, continuous, excessive and unrelenting stress that makes a person feel unable to cope or feel they are lacking in support is unhealthy and negative and can eventually lead to burnout.

Distant Healing is the channelling of healing energies to a person who is not in front of you. It is advisable to give distant healing only with the permission of the person so the person is willing and ready to receive the healing. It is not advisable to give distant healing without permission e.g. the person may be driving or at work and it has been known to cause a person to feel sleepy when they need to be alert. Always agree a time when distant healing can be received - this is so much better and more beneficial to the person receiving it and an effective use of your time.

Distant or Remote Healing with Toks:

Whether you are across the room or across the world, the benefits of distant healing can be amazing.  Distant Healing can help during times of dis-ease and has been known to produce fascinating re

Crystal Healing is the channeling of healing energies amplified with crystals from the Divine through the healer to the client or from the Divine direct to the client. Crystals are millions of years old from deep within the earth and emit very powerful energies. Crystals have been used for healing by many ancient cultures including Egyptians, Mayans, Native American Indians, Chinese and Japanese.

Toks may place crystals in your hands, on your body and/or around your body or she may just move them around your body. She can also help you choose the healing crystals you need at the time of the healing. As healing tools, they can be used for cleansing and raising the vibration of a person or a room, removing static negative energy, remembering dreams or having a powerful meditation.

Other Uses
As decorative tools, their natural beauty make them ideal for using as home decoration or body jewelry. Shiny clean healing crystals bring in positive feelings of light, joy, harmony, balance and peace.

The Suggested benefits of Crystal Healing are:-

Crystal healing is traditionally used to enhance healing on many levels, to beautify the environment and as lovely colourful gifts. They can be held as they can inspire a feeling of comfort and nurturing during moments of stress. Holding crystals in your hands or against your skin, can make you feel calm and safe as the sensation of holding can be very healing and centering. Crystals are used in clocks and computers.


Spiritual Healing is an ancient form of healing. It is the channeling of universal life force healing energies from the Divine direct to the client. It is transferring healing energies from the Divine, through the hands of the healer, to the client. Today, all the hurried and pressurised culture of modern life can lead to stressed and fragmented life styles and experiences, with associated health imbalances. In the healing session, you may or may not be touched, as you are restored to a new level of wellbeing. Today, healers can attend hospitals when requested by patients as healing is recognised by the National Health Service, and some doctors refer patients for healing sessions.

Chakra is an ancient Sanskrit (Indian) word meaning 'wheel'. The wheels of the body, the energy centres, can spin quickly or slowly.

Indian and Tibetan teachings maintain, that for harmony, each wheel must maintain its designed 'speed' or energy output.

Each wheel carries a specific number of 'Petals' which adds up to 144,000, the number synonymous with the speed of light.

When in a state of deep meditation the petals of each Chakra vibrate at their own speed thus producing energy which becomes pure light.

No. A feeling of regaining control and balance is experienced, irrespective of whether or not you are ill. It can be used to maintain a healthy pattern.

A Ritual Ceremony is a ceremonial action or event performed with ritual significance to honour and acknowledge.  It can be formal, informal, casual, elaborate, simple, spontaneous, religious, sacred or healing.

Before the Ritual Ceremony a consultation to ascertain what is required will be taken. This can be done face to face, in person, via Skype or over the phone. Time will be allocated to prepare for the Ritual Ceremony. As part of this process, Toks will produce a Ritual blessing document which will be used for the basis of the blessing on the day. This document will be presented to the client at the end of the Ceremony.

Starlight Tarot Reading is a personal intuitive reading using crystals and cards with very powerful Starlight healing. Toks has found that it encourages deep self-knowledge and may involve soul reading, ancestral reading and past life reading.

Starlight Tarot Reading answers all kinds of questions in a healing sacred space. As you hear your answers, Toks calls in healing, protection and blessings for you.

Before booking a reading with Toks Coker, please ask yourself the following questions to help you decide if you are ready for a Starlight Tarot Reading:

  • Am I going through a difficult time at the moment?
  • Do I have lots of questions?
  • Am I looking for a solution to a particular problem?
  • Do I need to understand the nature of my karma: past, present and future?
  • Am I searching for clarity and peace of mind?
  • Am I troubled?
  • Do I feel restless?
  • Am I constantly worrying about the same situation over and over again?
  • Do I find myself in the same situation all the time?
  • Do I have unresolved issues?
  • Am I holding on?
  • Should I let go?
  • Am I ready for the truth?
  • Am I constantly worrying about the same situation over and over again?
  • Am I seeking answers to confusing situations, conflicting issues and/or contrasting emotions?

The suggested benefits of Starlight Tarot reading are:-

  • Answers your questions (which may be simple, difficult or complicated)
  • Clarifies your mind, body and spirit
  • Creates better understanding
  • Reveals the truth of a situation
  • Gives you a course of action - inner strength to take the next step
  • Helps you to know what to accept
  • Helps you to know what to let go of (only if you want to and are ready to)
  • Helps you to look at a situation from a different perspective
  • Confirms something you already know or something totally new
  • Gives you inner peace of mind and personal understanding

Alchemy Coaching is intuitive listening. Toks intuitively listens to what you say and what you do not say. She intuitively listens without judgement, gently offering intuitive healing guidance in a safe, nurturing space. This very gentle healing approach enables you to talk and receive healing at the same time. Perhaps, for the first time you may feel that you are being really heard. Perhaps, for the first time you may feel someone does care about your thoughts and feelings and perhaps, understands YOU without judging you. This is inter-active and is about taking 'response-ability', improving your ability to respond to and be responsible for your life. Alchemy Coaching can also help with Spiritual Relationships.

Spiritual Relationships are for when you want help to face and heal the rifts in your relationships e.g. social relationships with friends or acquaintances, work relationships as well as relationships at home (in marriages, in the family, with lovers, partners, brothers, sisters, etc). This is about restoring balance in your life and your relationships thus helping you regain peace of mind, focus, clarity and understanding on your life. You begin to realize that the most challenging aspect of healing and life, is learning to love yourself (and others!) unconditionally - not an easy thing to do.

These sessions give you the power to change and heal yourself, to learn the lessons inherent in the situation, to forgive and let go, to move on and make conscious decisions that are proactive and progressive.

Toks knows that it is sometimes not easy to do all these things alone. She has found that sometimes, a little bit of help from someone you can trust, someone who is not judging you and who can really listen, can help.

She is saying, 'Let us work together, let us help you to make you the way you would like to be, even better than you could possibly imagine.' "Ho and so it is."

If any of the above applies to you then you could benefit from a session of Alchemy Coaching, Spiritual Counselling, Spiritual Mentoring, Spiritual Guidance or Spiritual Relationships.

  • Undecided about a decision, situation, person
  • Issues of separation and abandonment
  • Not looking after yourself, looking after others
  • Rescuing others, abandoning yourself
  • Exhausted by your experiences
  • Unhappy childhood, adulthood, old age
  • Unhappy and unfulfilled no matter what you achieve
  • Unfulfilled relationships that are obsessive, addictive, abusive
  • Falling for the wrong person, trying too hard to make it work
  • Lack confidence, feeling insecure, feeling suicidal
  • Feeling Angry, nervous, stunned, battered
  • Feeling lonely, unloved, deep buried pain
  • Unresolved issues, memories and pain
  • Feeling empty inside, not worthy, not able
  • Trying to change yourself or the other person in the relationship
  • Emotionally cold, too emotional, love too much, love not enough
  • Inability to love, feel or express emotions
  • Over-reacting, under-reacting
  • Constantly searching for 'real' love, 'real' life
  • Confused - always trying to make the right decision or please others

The suggested benefits of meditation are:-

  • Calms the mind
  • Soothing
  • Relaxing
  • Aids concentration and focus
  • Gives clearer thinking
  • Aids a good night's sleep
  • Calms the inner chatter
  • Eases stress levels
  • Improves sleep
  • Aids rest and relaxation
  • Reduces anxiety
  • Encourages Self-confidence
  • Reduces restlessness
  • Aids in the improvement of the state of mind of a person
  • Encourages better memory
  • Activates creativity
  • Improves energy levesl
  • Slows down breathing
  • Enhances performance
  • Unblocks negative feelings e.g. feeling stuck, confused, inactive, unable to move
  • Allows a person to tolerate pain they would ordinarily describe as unbearable

The FULL Moon  Meditation is a time of completeness or fruition of action. A time of abundance and ripening. A time for fertilization and ovulation! A time of CELEBRATION. This is like summer time – flowers blooming.

Mother Moon is pregnant with life. There is power and magic in the air. The moon is round, making the atmosphere pregnant with emotion and desire. The cup is full and the cup ‘runneth’ over. The Full Moon is a time full of emotional energy – which is very high during the 3 days of the Full Moon.

It is a time to face our various and many emotions. Everything is amplified with the energy of the Full Moon e.g. emotions, passions, love etc. You may experience strongly charged emotions with abundant, sometimes uncontrollable, feelings. This can lead you to lose control in a positive or negative way. Remember – the choice, as always, is yours.

What you perceive as your reality depends on what you are feeling at the time of the Full Moon and this can cause a lot of confusion if not checked. The gravitational pull of the Sun and Moon on Earth, set these extremes up. This can be a hard time to find balance. A time of extremes.

Congratulate yourself. The light of the full moon brings about manifestation of our goals or shows us the progress we have made and how far we have to go to complete - as we progress toward our goals. It shows us clearly where we are in the process of the realization of our plans, visions and goals. The revelation may hit us in a positive or negative way.

The Moon Meditations are held on the evening of the particular Moon in order to celebrate your life.

The Dates for the Full and New Moon can be seen by clicking this button. Moon Dates

The New Moon Mediation is a healing guided meditation. It is a journey to your sacred space of light or sacred cave of light. It is a journey into your deeper self, your true self, your real pure note, your spiritual resonance. It is a healing meditation on a multi-dimensional level. A time of New Beginnings.

It is about starting afresh, planting new seeds and connecting to your higher self. It is a self-healing and self-discovery meditation. It empowers you with the knowledge and fact that once you can attend to yourself, you can attend to others with ease. It is about renewing yourself, re birthing new ideas and activating creative life force in yourself and around you. It is a very rejuvenating meditation.

The New Moon Meditation is a time to plant seeds in your life to create your own garden. This means to plant new seeds e.g. dreams, goals, ideas, inspiration, affirmation, incantations, mission, vision. These seeds will grow and flower into your garden of dreams, goals, ideas, inspiration, affirmation, incantations, mission and/or vision. This meditation is for you, for 'spiritual' planting, for bringing in the new and creating freshness in your life.

You begin to create for yourself a ‘new’ beginning, purpose, intention and direction. You look at new ways of thinking, being and acting to move you out of a ‘rut’. You take action as you plant positive ideas in your subconscious mind. You are able to begin new projects. You are able to pray for new beginnings, hope and a youthful outlook. You transform doubt, worry and anxiety into hope, strength, courage and peace.

Many have found it empowering, enabling them to return to their own centre and to begin afresh when they have felt stuck or disempowered. Many have reported that it enabled them to clearly see the reality of their lives and encouraged them to face the truth and move forward in a positive light. Some realised they wanted to get pregnant, a mortgage, a new job or a new partner. Others wanted to develop a better relationship with their family. Some realized they had to break away from people, places, and habits that no longer served them. While others suddenly recognized that they were on the right path and needed to continue their journey with freshness and vitality.

A time of reflection and introspection that returns you to your centre of being. It is about praying, asking, receiving and giving thanks. It is about recharging your body, mind and spirit. It is CREATING blessings in your life NOW.

The Full Moon Dance is about making dreams come true, about releasing yourself from anxiety, worry and 'begging' i.e. through debts or loans. You break through your doubts and set yourself free to receive the abundance waiting for you from the universe. All you have to do is ask and you will receive. Today we ask through our prayer dance and our heart.

The Full Moon Dance is about receiving your abundance and your gifts and listening to our inner guidance. This could be to attend to your health, your lifestyle, write the book, get the job, get pregnant, get a mortgage, starting something new or continuing your journey with freshness and vitality. The Full Moon Dance is about asking for the things we want to come into our lives easily and effortlessly. It is about receiving blessings and gifts from the Divine. Through releasing your emotions that no longer serve you, you make room to receive your own fresh abundant gifts and blessings.

Through the creation of your own healing dance you grow and become more your true self through expression of dance. You develop confidence. You create a catalytic manifestation in your life.

You. The Full Moon Dance is about bringing your wishes and desires to fruition. The Full Moon Dance brings in the new. It purifies. It nurtures. It is a prayer dance flowing from the heart, direct from the Divine. This is a dance about your life - it is the sacred path you tread. This is a powerful purification prayer dance ritual to break free, to release the old; bringing in healing, joy, love and empowerment

After the healing dance you feel transfixed into your own realisation of wonder and joy, feeling energised and empowered.

Everyone - men, women, teenagers, children, elderly, disabled or not.

This is a playful happy dance. You prepare yourself for your dance in a special cleansing ritual and put on your sacred clothes. You may cry, you may laugh, you may express anger or joy - whatever you express is OK and perfect for you in the Healing Dance. Just be real and be true to yourself.

Crystal Healing is the channelling of healing energies amplified with crystals. The energies come from the Divine, through the healer, to the client or from the Divine, direct to the client. Crystals are millions of years old from deep within the Earth and emit very powerful energies. Crystals have been used for healing by many ancient cultures including Egyptians, Mayans, Native American Indians, Chinese and Japanese.

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